Messages from friends and family


 

As one of the five grandmas of the Spencer family (I’m Roger’s mom), I can attest to the incredible love and support that abounds in Roger and Michelle’s home, and as these sweet little ones, Jackson, Kennedy and Madi have come into our lives, they have each brought an overwhelming love with them. I am so very grateful for the birth families, especially the birth moms for the tremendous courage and love for their children. They wanted what was best for these precious ones and placing them in the Spencer’s loving home has not only brought the children into our lives, but the birth families as well. They are all part of our family now. 

I have known Michelle for 14 years and if I could use one word to describe her it would be, FUN! She has the ability to make an ordinary day more enjoyable and regular boring routine things more exciting. She has brought this gift into her life as a mother and her home is filled with joy. She loves her children dearly and would do anything for them. She is willing to put in the time and effort to understand and help her children excel. Any child would be lucky to be a part of the Spencer home. 
My name is John.  I am Michelle's brother.  I encourage you to seriously consider Michelle and Roger for your adoption.  They have been wonderful parents to their kids.  We see their home as a safe and loving place.
Michelle and Roger's decision to adopt Jackson, Madison, and Kennedy was a transformative chapter in their lives, one that overflowed with love and joy. As a couple, they opened their hearts and home to these three remarkable children, each with their unique backgrounds and personalities. The journey was not without its challenges, but the love that blossomed within their family was unparalleled. The laughter, the shared dreams, and the support they found in one another created an unbreakable bond. The children brought a kaleidoscope of new experiences, perspectives, and traditions into their home, enriching their lives in ways they could have never imagined. Through this extraordinary act of love and compassion, Michelle and Roger not only changed the lives of Jackson, Madison, and Kennedy but also discovered the profound truth that family is about the connections we nurture, the love we share, and the beautiful differences that make us stronger together. -Roger's Sister
I'm Michelle's brother, and I have had the joy of watching them adopt three beautiful kids.  Each child has had such a unique personality as well as challenges, and Michelle and Roger have gone above and beyond to make every one of their kids feel special and at home.  They are always inviting to all that enter their home, and will do anything for anyone in need.  I've watched their family grow from two college kids to a strong family of 5, and I firmly believe a family of 6 would be perfect!
Family friend- I have known Michelle and Roger for about 5 years. They put everything they have into their family.  I have worked closely in our church with Michelle as well as had plenty of play date and she thrives around children. They both are selfless and do all they can for their kids and their future. Not to mention that they make life fun! 

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